Helping you see the pattern - and change it.

Geraldine Fay Private Therapy, Northern Ireland, Ireland & UK

Geraldine Fay Private Therapy | Online Globally (UK & Ireland) & In-Person

Integrative Therapy, Subconscious Mindset Shifts and NLP Coaching

Integrative Therapy and NLP Coaching

I work with people who know something needs to change but cannot yet see clearly what it is or how to shift it.

Often they have already tried to understand it, they can describe the pattern, but they simply cannot seem to move it - not through insight alone, not through willpower and not through trying harder.

That is where this therapy work begins.

I bring not only professional training across several disciplines, but also a deep personal understanding of what it means to lose yourself inside a pattern you cannot yet name. That understanding informs everything I do.

How I Work

My work goes deeper than talking about what is happening. Rather than focusing primarily on insight and understanding, I work directly with the subconscious patterns themselves, the automatic responses, beliefs, and ways of relating that sit below conscious thought and quietly shape how life is experienced. Because Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) is heavily rooted in Ericksonian hypnotherapy principles, we can safely access and rewrite these deep-seated habits in a conversational, fully awake state where you always remain empowered and in control.

This includes paying attention to what the body is carrying. Patterns that have been held for years rarely live in the mind alone, they show up in physical tension, in shallow breaths and in the body's automatic reactions before conscious thought has caught up. Drawing on a background in Traditional Chinese Medicine, I bring a somatic-informed awareness to every session, noticing what the body is communicating alongside what is being said.

This is practical, purposeful work. Every session has a direction and we are always moving toward something specific, not circling the same ground indefinitely.

I adapt the approach to the person in front of me, drawing on whichever methods are most relevant to what is actually present, whether that is NLP pattern-shifting, transpersonal exploration, Jungian-informed shamanic counselling, or somatic body awareness, meaning that each session is personal rather than standard, and change arrives in a way that feels natural rather than forced.

I offer remote online sessions via Zoom, Google Meet or Whatsapp video. If you prefer another platform, please let me know. In person sessions are available in my therapy space in Crossmaglen, Armagh (4 minutes from north Monaghan and County Louth borders and a short drive from Castleblaney, Dundalk and Newry).

What I Specialise In

I work with a range of difficulties, but my work is particularly focused on:

  • Relationship patterns : especially over functioning, emotional responsibility and losing yourself inside a relationship dynamic

  • Anxiety, stress, burnout and constant worrying: .powerful practical tools to interrupt negative mental loops, reframe overwhelming beliefs, and train your nervous system to trigger calm states on command

  • Phobias, habits and performance anxiety : focused, targeted work that produces results quickly

  • Self-sabotage, procrastination and avoidance : understanding what is driving the pattern beneath the surface

  • Limiting beliefs and recurring patterns : the deep, often unconscious convictions that shape every decision without awareness

  • Identity and self-connection : returning to a clearer sense of who you are beneath the roles and patterns you have been living inside and reconnecting with your deep body awareness and true self.

Qualifications & Professional Accreditations

  • Certified Member of the American Board of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (ABNLP)

  • Accredited Member of the International Practitioners of Holistic Medicine (IPHM)

  • Certified Practitioner in Neuro-Linguistic Programming

  • Certificate in Transpersonal Therapy

  • Certificate in Shamanic Counselling

  • Licentiate in Traditional Chinese Medicine

  • Shamanic Practitioner Certificate

  • Advanced Continuing Professional Development (CPD): Currently undertaking Solution Focused Professional Hypnotherapy training

My Background and Training

I am an integrative transpersonal psychotherapist and accredited NLP practitioner, Working online with clients across the UK, Ireland, Australia and worldwide, and in person in Crossmaglen, Northern Ireland.

My core training includes:

Work With Me

If you recognise yourself in any of this and want to explore whether working together might help, the first step is a free 30-minute consultation.

No pressure and no commitment, just a conversation about what is going on for you and whether this feels right for you.

Have a query? Please send me a message.

Get in touch

Geraldine Fay Therapy

[email protected]

Tel/Txt: +447379262151

Whatsapp: +447379262151

Location

Crossmaglen,

Newry,

Co. Armagh

BT35

Areas Served

  • Minutes from County Monaghan

  • Minutes from County Louth

  • South Armagh

  • Online and In-person

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